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6 Tips for Finding the Right Live in Carer

By Elder Care, Live in Care
06 June 2024

Finding the right live-in carer for a loved one is an important decision that requires careful consideration. With the proper planning and vetting process, families can find a compassionate and skilled caregiver who will provide attentive, personalized care in the comfort of home. By following some key tips, you can identify care needs, thoroughly evaluate potential caregivers, and make an informed choice for your family member's well-being.

1. Identify care needs and create a 'wish list'

If you’re arranging care for someone else, talk to them about their day to day life – what they find difficult, what they’d like help with, and what they’re able to do and would like to continue to for themselves. This will help you understand the level of care that’s needed and start to shape a list of tasks for your future carer. It may include things like – 

  • Personal care – How confident is your loved one in getting in and out the shower or to the toilet un-aided? What level of help would they be comfortable with? 
  • Domestic tasks – What household chores does your loved one dislike or find most difficult? 
  • Medical conditions  – Does their health impact their energy levels, mobility, or ability to do certain things? Do they struggle to keep on top of when and how much medication to take? 
  • Recreational time –  What places does your loved one like to visit? Could a carer help them do more of the things they love? 

2. Ensure you're comfortable with the vetting process

How carers are vetted can vary depending on whether you’re using an agency, a marketplace, or are looking at hiring a private carer yourself. 

When using care agencies or introduction services, there should be a robust recruitment process in place that they can share details of with you. At the very least, a reputable care provider should ensure carers have completed a full background check. This should involve a DBS check (or a PVG in Scotland) which identifies whether a person has a criminal record. 

Hiring a carer privately will mean doing the background work yourself, make sure you understand the legal responsibilities and employment rights, such as holiday entitlement in our guide here. 

Many companies will do additional screening too. For example, to be a fully vetted and approved carer on the Elder platform self-employed carers must – 

  • Have a clean enhanced DBS or PVG 
  • Provide at least two professional and verifiable references
  • Complete a character assessment, to ensure caring comes naturally to them
  • Complete a judgement assessment, to ensure they can make the right decisions in critical moments. 

3. Review carer profiles carefully together

It’s worth remembering a candidate that you see as the perfect carer, may be seen differently by your loved one or other family members. Looking at potential carers together will help flag any difference of opinion, and could help you think about factors you’d not considered before. And remember not to judge a book by it’s cover, it can be easy to dismiss a carer because their profile photo isn’t the best quality, but they might have the ideal skills and personality you’re looking for. 

At Elder, carer profiles feature an introductory video, details of the types of care they’ve provided, and feedback from families they’ve worked with. 

Be sure to factor in any caring responsibilities that you as a family would still be able to or like to contribute too. For example if there are siblings or grandchildren who pop in for regular chats, or who enjoy weekly shopping trips with your loved one you’ll want to work this into your new carer’s schedule, as it could be the perfect opportunity for them to take breaks. 

4. Don't be afraid to ask questions

A profile is a great way to identify potential carers who have the right skills to deliver high-quality care, however to get a deeper understanding of who they are as a person, and how they’ll build up a connection with your loved one it can really help to speak to them directly. 

This can be over online messaging, over the phone, or on a video call – whatever you’re most comfortable with and is convenient for all involved. 

Be warm, honest, and don’t be afraid to ask questions  – in the long run it’s better for both your family and the carer to find out at this stage if you could be a good match. Some good starter questions may include – 

  • Have you done live-in care before? 
  • What kind of personalities do you get on best with? What kind of people do you clash with? 
  • What’s your favourite thing about providing care? 
  • What kind of complex care have your provided? 
  • What kind of meals can you cook? 
  • How do you form a good relationship with the person you’re caring for?
  • How do you promote independence?
  • How do you protect a person’s dignity?
  • How do you communicate with the family?
  • How would you deal with a difficult or stressful situation?
  • Is there anything you’d like to ask me?